A talk from 達賴喇嘛<div style="text-align: center;"><font style="color: DarkOrange; font-weight: bold;" size="5"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">A talk from 達賴喇嘛</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">( 網路文章 )</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"></div><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">達賴喇嘛在2003年元旦說了一些話，你只要花幾秒的時間讀一讀並思考。 </span><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><span style="font-family: 黑體;"> </span><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">This is what The Dalai Lama has to say on the millennium, which began </span><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">01/01/2003. All it takes is a few seconds to read and think about. Do not just keep this message.</span><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><span style="font-family: 黑體;"> </span><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">達賴喇嘛在千禧世紀所揭示的生活指導為：</span><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><span style="font-family: 黑體;"> </span><br style="font-family: 黑體;"></font><div style="margin-left: 40px;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">1.了解所有的真愛和偉大的成就都免不了承擔艱難的冒險。 </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">2.當失敗時，要記取教訓。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">3.遵行三個原則：尊敬自己、尊敬別人、為自己的行為負責。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">4.切記有時候當事與願違時，反而會是一個幸運的契機。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">5.熟習規則，如此你才知道如何適當地打破規則。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">6.不要因為細故而破壞一段友誼。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">7.當你知道已經犯下錯誤時，以最快的時間更正。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">8.每天花一點時間獨處。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">9.敞開心胸去改變，但不要捨棄你的價值操守。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">10.切記有時沈默是最好的答案。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">11.過良好、高尚的生活。如此當你走過歲月回顧時，就能再次享受它。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">12.保持家庭溫馨的氣氛是生活的基礎。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">13.當與所愛的人起衝突時，只針對當下的問題解決，不要舊事重提。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">14.分享你所得的知識。這是成就永恆的方法。</span></font><br><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;"></span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;"></span><span style="font-family: 黑體;">15.溫和對待地球。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">16.每一年到一個從沒去過的地方。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">17.切記最好的友誼就是對彼此的真愛勝於對彼此的需要。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">18.評估你的勝利必須要放棄什麼才能得到它。</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">19.在遭受冷漠遺棄時試著去接近愛。 </span><span style="font-family: 黑體;"></span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"></div><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><span style="font-family: 黑體;"> Instructions for Life in the new millennium from the Dalai Lama: </span><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"></font><div style="margin-left: 40px;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.</span></font><br><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;"></span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;"></span><span style="font-family: 黑體;">2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">3. Follow the three Rs: Respect for self,respect for others and responsibility for all your actions. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">8. Spend some time alone every day.</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">15. Be gentle with the earth. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">16. Once a year, go some place you've n ever been before.</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. </span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it. </span><span style="font-family: 黑體;"></span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><br style="font-family: 黑體;"><font style="color: rgb(68, 85, 166);" size="4"><span style="font-family: 黑體;">19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.</span></font><br style="font-family: 黑體;"></div>